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Anal Sex Toys
While there are some vibrators and dildos/dongs that are intended for
anal use, this category covers all other kinds of anal toys - butt plugs
and anal beads. When using any anal toy, be sure to apply plenty of lube
to the toy and your anus for smooth, safe penetration.
Butt plugs tend to vary widely in length, but they’re generally wider
than most other sex toys meant for anal use. Because of this feature,
butt plugs are mainly the playground for experienced anal toy users
instead of beginners. Butt plugs also contain a large flat base so butt
plugs can be easily removed.
Anal beads are a string of several beads that can be inserted anally.
These beads start off small and then grow larger, offering something for
beginners and experienced sex toy users. Some of the anal beads even
vibrate with movement so just walking to the water cooler can send your
rear tingling.
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Dildo and Dong Sex Toys
Dildos and dongs are sex toys meant for vaginal or anal penetration.
These sex toys are made from a wide variety of materials and are
typically phallic-shaped. Unlike vibrators, dildos and dongs do not have
a motorized component so you never have to worry about running low on
battery power at a crucial moment! Many dildos and dongs come with
suction cups so you can place them in special positions for a more
interesting experience. Double dongs or double dildos make it possible
for two people to enjoy the dildo or dong at the same time. Double dongs
are basically two dongs joined together with some extra material in the
middle for flexibility.
Dildos and Dongs are so similar that the terms are practically
interchangeable. However, true sex toy connoisseurs know that dildos are
the more realistic of the two - often looking like a penis complete to
base shaped like a pair of balls.
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Erection Enhancing Sex Toys
Erection Enhancers include several types of sex toys, such as cock
rings, that are designed to affect the penis by adding length or by
restricting blood flow to prolong an erection.
Extensions are used to add length and girth to average or below-average
penises. Extension sex toys fit over the head of the penis - typically
adding 2 to 3 inches to the length and as much as 2 inches to the width
of a penis. These are often designed similar to condoms, in that you
position them at the tip of your penis and roll them downward into
place. NOTE: Extensions are not designed to replace condoms.
Cock rings fit snugly around the base of the penis shaft. These sex toys
provide a tight fit that restricts blood flow to the penis, prolonging
the erection and also adding slightly to length and girth. There are
many different varieties of cock rings. Some are sized to also fit
around the balls to increase the time it takes to ejaculate. Many cock
rings also include some sort of mini-vibrator used to stimulate your
partner and yourself. For safety reasons, you should never use a cock
ring for more than 20 minutes to allow for proper blood circulation.
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Love Doll Sex Toys
Love doll sex toys bring to mind a balloon blow-up hanging out at a
college frat party or a bachelor party! Love dolls today are far more
sophisticated - some top-notch dolls are even so realistic that they’re
almost scary!
The majority of love dolls are shaped like a woman, albeit a short one.
Love dolls typically have openings in their mouth, vagina and anus (also
called the Greek opening) that can be used for insertion. These openings
tend to be similar to masturbation sleeves, made from a soft jelly
material with a small opening. You should look for love dolls where
these openings are removable so they can be easily cleaned. Quality love
dolls also include egg vibrators for further stimulation.
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Masturbator Sex Toys
Masturbators, also called strokers, sleeves, or pocket pussies, these
hand-held toys are meant to make male masturbation more enjoyable. They
are typically made from either jelly, silicone or cyberskin and have a
small hole at either end. The outside can be shaped like a pair of lips
or a vagina complete with hair while the inside usually has a series of
ridges or pleasure nubs for a more realistic and exciting sensation.
While you can use your hand in a pinch, many men prefer the smoother,
tighter sensation of masturbators as the more realistic feel leads to
more powerful orgasms.
When using masturbators, it’s important to use plenty of lube on your
penis and on the inside of the masturbator to prevent damage to the sex
toy.
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Pump Sex Toys
Pumps are specialized sex toys aimed to enhance overall penis size or at
men who might have problems attaining an erection. You place the special
pump chamber tightly over your penis and then pump out the air. This
creates a strong form of suction in the chamber which leads to blood
rushing into the penis and creates the largest possible erection. After
removing the pump, most users will use a cock ring to help sustain their
increased size for longer periods of time. Read
More About Pumps.
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Sleeve Sex Toys
Sleeves are meant to fit around the penis for enhanced sensation.
Sleeves are snug enough to stay in place but aren’t really snug enough
to restrict blood flow like a true cock ring. Some sleeves are several
inches long and covered with pleasure ticklers to provide vaginal and
clitoral stimulation. Others have a special curve at the top for G-Spot
stimulation. And then other sleeves are used to add inches to penis
length. You can also use sleeves on some vibrators for the sake of
variety.
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Strap-on Sex Toys
Strap ons are specialized sex toys that aim to function just like a
penis. Strap ons are usually dildos or dongs that can be locked into
place on a special harness that the user then can wear like panties. The
dildo juts out like a hard penis and can be used for penetrating thrusts
like a real penis.
When shopping for strap-ons, it’s important to look for devices that
have a secure, firm locking system to hold the dildo in place during
penetration. Without that system, the dildo can easily come loose and
ruin the fun for both partners.
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Stimulating Sex Toys
Stimulators is something of a miscellaneous category. This catch-all
category includes cock rings, sleeves and other items decided to
stimulate erogenous zones.
This category also includes unique sex toys designed to be attached to
the nipples either with some sort of suction device or clamps so they
can be worn during sex. These nipple stimulators include some sort of
egg vibrator to provide continuous nipple stimulation. It is important
to form a good seal with the suction sex toys - typically by wetting the
nipple or area in question. This will keep the sex toys in place during
strenuous activities. The sex toy’s speed and intensity are typically
controlled with a remote - allowing easy adjustment depending on your
mood and desires. Some of the upper-scale suction or clamp sex toys are
designed to be used on the vagina or clitoris also.
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Sex Toy Materials
Sex Toys are made from a several different materials, which can affect
how you use your sex toys, your sex toys’ price and even how you
maintain your sex toys. Before buying a sex toy, you should research the
6 basic materials - Plastic, Latex, Jelly, Cyberskin, Silicone, and
Glass - so you can find the sex toy best suited to your needs.
Plastic Sex Toys
Plastic is a popular choice for sex toys, largely because of its
extremely low price. Sex toys made from plastic tend to be very basic,
no-frills models. Plastic sex toys are very smooth and sleek. Plastic
sex toys tend to be excellent for penetration, providing a firm and
fulfilling experience. But their lack of flexibility makes them less
effective when it comes to clitoral stimulation.
Latex Sex Toys
This material is one step up from plastic. While still relatively cheap,
latex gives the sex toy user many more options. Latex sex toys are firm
enough for deep penetration, but these sex toys have more give and a
little more flexibility than their plastic counterparts. Because latex
sex toys have much more friction than plastic ones, you should always
use a lube with them.
Jelly Sex Toys
Jelly sex toys provide an excellent balance between usability and cost -
making this the material of choice for many mid-range and luxury sex
toys. Jelly is very easy to mold, color and shape, properties which
manufacturers take advantage of whenever possible. This results in jelly
sex toys numbering among the most colorful and exotic-looking models of
sex toys as well as giving designers a chance to include many special
features. Jelly is a very pliable material that has on overall smooth,
soft and even supple feel to it. Despite their name, jelly sex toys have
a consistency similar to a hard-boiled egg and are very effective at
penetration.
Cyberskin Sex Toys
Cyberskin sex toys are prized for their highly realistic feel and
appearance. This special material comes very close to replicating the
feel and appearance of human skin, especially after you hold these sex
toys close to your body to warm them up. Because of its realistic look
and feel, cyberskin is commonly used in high-end adult toys and
realistic sex toys. It combines the soft give of jelly sex toys with the
firmness of latex sex toys. Cyberskin sex toys do require some
specialized cleaning.
Silicone Sex Toys
Silicone is a high quality material that is rapidly revolutionizing the
sex toy industry. Silicone is prized for its durability as well as its
superior hygienic properties. Silicone can put up with a great deal of
stress and hard-use while retaining its original shape and qualities.
Silicone sex toys tend to be more expensive because these models are
meant to last for years of intense usage. For the most part, silicone
sex toys are soft and firm and feel very comfortable whether used for
penetration or clitoral stimulation. Silicone sex toys are also easy to
clean.
Glass Sex Toys
The numerous benefits of glass sex toys make them highly appealing to
the sex toy connoisseur. Glass sex toys often have a special, unique
shape and are liberally covered with bumps and nodules to provide
additional stimulation. Some special glass toys even include vibrators.
But the most unique option of glass sex toys is the ability to cool the
sex toys or warm the sex toys for added stimulation. Provided that the
glass sex toy doesn’t have a vibrator, you can safely use hot water to
warm up your glass sex toy to a comfortable temperature or you could
place your glass sex toy in the freezer or refrigerator to cool your
glass sex toy.
On top of all that, glass sex toys are highly durable, your glass sex
toy could last for your lifetime with the proper care. Glass sex toys
are also non-porous. As for cleaning, you can simply throw non-vibrator
glass sex toys in the dishwasher or a pot of boiling water.
But all of these sex toy benefits do have a price. Glass sex toys are
much harder to manufacture than other sex toys, which drives up the
price of glass sex toys compared to other sex toys. The special features
of glass sex toys even mean that some sex toys have to be handmade. |
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Sex Toys & Sex Lubes
While there are some sex toys that can safely be used without lube,
Picking the Right Lube can help protect most sex toys from overall
damage and increases the sex toy’s lifespan. Using Lube with your sex
toy also greatly enhances the sex toy’s effectiveness and the sex toy
user’s overall experience - especially with Proper Cleaning.
This guide covers the basics of lube, please refer to the Lubes and
Lotions Guide for more in-depth information.
Picking the Right Sex Lube for your Sex Toy
You should always be careful which kind of lube you use with your sex
toy. Using the wrong lube could damage your sex toy or greatly decrease
its lifespan. Water-based lubes can be used safely with any sex toy. Oil
or petroleum-based lubes can damage certain sex toys – particularly sex
toys made from latex. Silicone-based lubes can be used with any sex toy
that is not made from silicone.
Using Sex Lube with your Sex Toy
Once you’ve selected a safe lube to use with your sex toy, you should
carefully apply a small bit of lube to the toy as well as the body part
you intend to use the toy on. If you have a dildo you want to use for
anal penetration, you should apply the lube to your anus. There should
be enough lube to solidly coat both surfaces. Note that depending on
which type of lube you use, you might need to stop briefly to add more
if the lube should dry out.
Cleaning Sex Lube from your Sex Toy
To clean off the lube, you should wipe off the toy and yourself with
warm, soapy water and then dry off with a towel. Water-based lubes are
the easiest to clean off. Other lubes might prove more difficult to
remove or can leave behind a sticky feeling that some people find
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Taking Care of your Sex Toys
With just a little bit of Cleaning, Maintenance, and Proper Care, you
and your favorite sex toys can have a long and enjoyable partnership.
Cleaning and Maintaining your Sex Toy
Most sex toys are incredibly easy to clean. Just wet a clean towel in
warm soapy water and wipe the sex toys off – taking care not to get the
control area or battery compartment wet. If you use your sex toy anally,
you must clean it very thoroughly using antibacterial soap or rubbing
alcohol if possible as soon as possible after each use. There are also
special cleaners formulated to safely work with adult sex toys that you
could use instead. Be sure to clean your sex toy soon after use. Never
put off cleaning your sex toy until the next day.
After cleaning, dry the sex toy with a soft, clean cloth. If your sex
toy is made from cyberskin, you should apply the special powder to
maintain the sex toy’s unique feeling. After thoroughly drying your sex
toy, you should wrap it in a dry cloth and store your sex toy in a cool,
dry place.
These are the recommended cleaning methods for the most popular sex toy
materials:
Plastic – soap and water, rubbing alcohol, sex toy cleaner
Latex – mild soap and water, sex toy cleaner
Jelly – mild soap and water, sex toy cleaner
Cyberskin – mild soap and water, Cyberskin cleaner, sex toy
cleaner, talcum powder
Silicon – soap and water, sex toy cleaner
Glass – soap and water, sex toy cleaner, rubbing alcohol, boiling
water
Replacing Sex Toy Batteries
When you wear out your batteries, replacing them is as simple as a trip
to your nearest drug store. Most sex toys take AA or AAA batteries, but
some sex toys take common watch batteries. Be sure to take note what
battery you need when you remove them from the sex toys. The batteries
on most models can be removed by unscrewing the base of the sex toys or
removing the panel on the remote control.
Long-term Sex Toy Storage
Batteries contain highly corrosive chemicals, and it’s not recommended
that you leave them inside your sex toy for extended periods of time. If
you don’t plan to use your sex toy for longer than a week, you should
remove the batteries, wrap your sex toy in a dry towel and store it in a
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Penis Pumps
Penis pumps are basically the opposite of most other pumps you’ve ever
encountered. Instead of inflating bike tires or basketballs, penis pumps
work by removing air instead of adding air.
The user inserts their penis in a tube, and then presses the tube to the
base of their penis. For the pump to be effective, the user must fit all
the way inside so the base of the pump forms a solid seal against the
skin. The user then squeezes the pump mechanism to suck the air out of
the tube, creating a vacuum inside the tube. This vacuum, in turn,
causes blood to rush to the penis. Since erections depend on blood flow,
this increased amount of blood enlarges the penis. The benefits are more
noticeable when it comes to length, but many users also report a gain of
girth.
When buying a penis pump, you should be sure to look for a model that
would allow for a tight seal between the chamber and your skin to allow
for more effective suction. Many users also prefer a trigger-type device
to the bulb as they argue that the trigger is easier to use. For safety
reasons, you should buy only penis pumps that contain an emergency
release valve. This valve will fill the chamber with air in case you
have difficult removing the penis pump. Also you should never use a
penis pump for prolonged periods of time.
There are a few pumps aimed at women. These pumps function just like the
male penis pumps but are targeted to the clitoris or the vaginal area.
For the most effective experience, users should use the pump daily to
promote penis growth. After using the pump, it is recommended that you
apply a cockring around the base of your erection to help maintain the
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Ben-Wa Balls
Ben-Wa balls are one of the most misunderstood and under-appreciated sex
toys on the market. They are admittedly unusual compared to vibrators or
dildos, but Ben-Wa balls offer a diverse set of benefits that should
please even the most demanding user.
Ben-Wa balls are a string of specialized beads, anywhere from 4 to 6.
These beads contain a weighted ball bearing that moves inside the balls
whenever you shake them. If you’ve ever tried a pair of Chinese worry
balls, Ben-Wa balls feel and work similarly but are much smaller. They
produce a varied, grinding-type of sensation that provides superior
vaginal or anal stimulation.
Ben-Wa Ball Stimulation
The main attraction is that Ben-Wa balls provide constant stimulation
whenever you move and the motion of the balls is completely random so
you never know what to expect and you never get accustomed to the
sensations like one can with vibrators or other sex toys.
Ben-Wa balls are especially beneficial for Kegal exercises, which
strengthen a woman’s pelvic muscles. By squeezing and releasing the
balls, you can drastically improve the benefits of Kegal workouts while
also rewarding yourself with enhanced pleasure.
Ben-Wa balls are also quite enjoyable to work in and out of the vagina
or anus because their shape differs so much from the straight shaft
found on so many other sex toys. Many users find the new shape to be
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